So .... Can a fa fa fini also aspire to be an adult? At the same time? Or do they have to be an adult in order to aspire to be a woman - as a fa fa fini? What if a woman has a sex change and becomes a man? Can she now be a fa fa fini?

I think we need clarification on this. You can't leave us hanging - or not.

Add one to my list of guilty pleasures -- Sugar Ray in concert.

One of mine: Spanish Soap Operas (Tele-novelas) Particularly, a little show about a prostitute caught up in the world of Colombian drug cartels called "Sin Senos, No Hay Paraiso" (Without Breasts, There Is No Paradise)

I think if guilty pleasures were not seen as guilty, they would be innocent pleasures..you know what, I am feeling quite innocent tonight!

Guilty Pleasure, "Hitting the post behind people's backs". That is a sexual inuendo if I ever heard one. Of course, it is harmless radio jargon but when the meaning is deciphered, we can find gay interlaced meanings throughout the sentence in layers or (waves) as you prefer.
Somebody is cheating on somebody else with another "stick". Or it was a mis-slip of the word, the real sentence might have been "Hitting the post behnd IN people's backs". Food for thought?